Goals, Not Resolutions: a letter to myself.

January already?! It’s the month of change and New Year’s Resolutions! It’s the month where people sometimes judge you for having resolutions. “You can start any day, why wait until the New Year?” I can’t speak for anyone else, but I will tell you why I sometimes wait until the first of the month.

To me, the New Year is a fresh start, a new beginning. I understand that it’s just another day, because in reality, it is. I just love the idea of setting new goals for the New Year because it’s easier to track my progress.

This year was the first year that I actually made specific plans to accomplish. I made my plans in the form of a check list. One of my favorites on my list is to attend 36 yoga classes, and I’ve already done 4! My check list is on my fridge, in my bedroom, and my living room. I’m hoping that this will help keep me on track, and inspire me to do more.

2016 for me is about finding myself. Considering the fact that this is my last year before I go back stateside, these next 14 months are crucial. I’m doing what I can to prepare myself for the real world (I moved to Japan right after graduating high school). By this summer I will officially be a Certified Event Planning Specialist! Super exciting! I’m focusing on my physical and mental health, as well as building my savings account.

I try to set realistic AND specific goals. Planning to lose weight is vague. How much weight do you want to lose? What are you going to do to lose weight? Saving money is also vague. Plan to save a certain amount of money, and figure out a savings plan to do that. You want to travel? Where do you want to go? Write down your resolutions and make them a goal, hold yourself accountable.

Almost every day I wake up thinking about the house my husband and I will eventually buy. I think about what kind of cabinets I will have in my kitchen, the type of couches I will have in my living room. I have a vision, and it’s inspiring me to work harder.

You have to envision the lifestyle you want to live. Seek motivation in something. Create a dream board, scrapbook, or even a bucket list. Find someone with similar goals and hold each other accountable. Track your progress every few months. Never stop going after your dreams. Every year that you set and accomplish good goals, you set yourself up for greatness.

Why I quit my job.

A lot of people have been asking me why I would quit my job with no backup plan. It’s kinda tough to answer with one sentence, but I will try to keep things short.

The easiest way to put it, it was a toxic environment. Communication was poor, the job itself is unstructured. The training is nonexistent. Everything was unorganized.

This job was never going to be a long term job, just something to get me out of the house. I spent most of my time there settling because I absolutely hated that place from the beginning.

There are so many other positive things i would rather be doing. I can finally focus on school, my direct sales business, my physical AND mental health, and my marriage.

I’ve never worked at a place that I didn’t like; and I will never work anywhere that I don’t feel comfortable. I won’t work anywhere that will negatively affect my mental health. It’s just not worth it.

Long story short; I quit my job because I knew nothing good could come from staying. I quit my job because my happiness is worth more than $8.71 an hour.


**I would not have quit my job if I couldn’t have afforded to.